What to do if your Russian wife is depressed in a new country

What to do if your Russian wife is depressed in a new country

What are the reasons of depression?

Men are often attracted by the mystery of the Russian wife’s online, their soul, female sacrifice and strength. But often women who moved abroad have problems with adaptation.

Depression after the moving is a strange feeling. You start thinking – and the mind says that everything is okay. Thinking about the past, realize that now is better. Thinking about now, you realize that everything is fine. But when you think about the future, you can’t see anything clear.

Of course, there are different reasons to move – a lot of whole families move and begin to build everything from scratch, some people fall in love and move to their lovers, some of them move to study, etc. And adaptation is also individual for everyone.

The language barrier

If you found a Russian wife and she doesn`t know the language, it stays one of the main problems. It can be one of the main reasons if she is feeling depressed.

Lack of work

The name speaks for itself. It is hard to live in other country and not to work when you were successful at your home country. It’s hard to feel not in demand, having a few degrees “behind”, and knowing foreign languages.

Failure to understand what to do next, the reluctance to set new goals

It is quite difficult period, when you don’t even have time to understand how you found yourself in it. When you wake up one morning and don’t want to do anything, don’t eat, sleep, read or listen to music, just lie still.

Of course, there are different reasons to move – a lot of whole families move and begin to build everything from scratch, some people fall in love and move to their lovers, some of them move to study, etc. And adaptation is also individual for everyone.

The main mistake of Russian women who married a foreigner is that they have stereotype that Western life is better, that there is nothing to do in their native country,and that only princes live in Western countries.

The main problem in getting married to foreigners is the language barrier and the different living conditions. Russian women are hard to get used to the customs and traditions of other countries. They need to communicate and be understood. Without knowing the language, their husband talks, it is hard for them learn about the habits of a loved one, to feel his character, habits etc.

Often women are beginning to miss their home and communication with their family. Mentality abroad is different; there are no warm conversations, to which women are accustomed to at home.

Of course, we shouldn’t think that all marriages with foreigners are doomed. There are a huge number of happy couples who have found true love abroad. Strong feelings and emotions help them to overcome all the problems: language, routine, moral.

Happiness in marriage with a foreigner depends on the pretty Russian wife, who has to accept the rules of life in a new family, to respect the traditions of her husband, living conditions, his family and tempers.

Often, marriage with foreigners grows into deep frustration for life. It is connected with the fact that each nation has  its own special attitude towards women.